Another danger, I suppose is that a solution will appear through the diffractive lens of the residuum of kin and extended kin. (See below for the difficulties there, which are actually a bit extraordinary.) As difficult as life is presently, there's precisely zero possibility of going back into the world of those folks, or taking their views as veridical as to my experience and work. They had their work, and the fact of a family presented certain difficulties for that, and so their relationship with their family was conditioned by certain outside factors. (Something they might do well to think about for a bit, and orient themselves in relation to that work. Even in memory, long afterwards, it might be spiritually useful, and even essential.) But that time is past, and one can't (and shouldn't ever want to) go home again. The answer is in the future, which is to say, the present.
